A lesson about familiar and polite German pronouns

Familiar and Polite German Pronouns 

In addition to the pronouns you have learned before , we have been presented with the following additional familiar and polite German pronouns :

Ihnen (to) you (2nd person singular, dative case)
ihr you (2nd person, plural, nominative case)
sie they (3rd person, plural, nominative case)
Sie you (2nd person, singular, nominative case)
wir we (1st person, plural, nominative case)

In the conversations between friends presented previously , the familiar form of the personal pronouns (e.g., du, dir) was used . However, German also has a polite or formal form of some of these personal pronouns . The polite form is used in conversations between strangers and more formal situations .

The polite form is always first-letter capitalized in German , which can be helpful in differentiating Sie (you) from sie (she and they) ; Ihnen (you) from ihnen (them) . However , you will soon learn that the form of the verb (see  below) is most telling , as shown by these example pairs using the verb , haben (have) :

Do you have a cigarette?

(polite form of you)

Haben Sie eine Zigarette?
She has no sausage and no cheese. Sie hat keine Wurst und keinen Käse.
They have much work (to do). Sie haben viel Arbeit.
Do they have too much work? Haben sie zu viel Arbeit?

Because the first letter in a sentence is always capitalized , we cannot determine (without the verb form) whether the second and third examples begin with sie (‘she’ or ‘they’) or with Sie (polite ‘you’)  ; a problem that would also exist in conversation . The fourth example , where subject and verb are reversed in a question , demonstrates the pronoun ‘they’ ; compare it with the polite ‘you’ in the first example .

It is relatively easy for an English speaker to appreciate how context , especially in conversation , overcomes confusion considering that English has fewer forms for these pronouns than German . However , this fact does present some difficulty when learning German , since improper use of a pronoun may just create confusion in speaking or writing German .

A conversation between two businessmen :

Mr.Smith and Mr.Standish meet at headquarters :

  • Herr Schmidt : Guten Morgen, Herr Standish! Wie geht es Ihnen ?
  • Herr Standish : Danke sehr, es geht mir gut. Und Ihnen ?
  • Herr Schmidt : Nicht so gut. Ich bin müde .
  • Herr Standish : Wie bitte? Müde? Warum ?
  • Herr Schmidt : Ich habe so viel Arbeit .
  • Herr Standish : Das kann ich verstehen. Zu viel ist zu viel .
  • Herr Schmidt : Das ist richtig. Auf Wiedersehen, Herr Standish !
  • Herr Standish : Auf Wiedersehen, bis morgen .

Personal pronoun gender

In both English and German the 3rd person personal pronouns have gender . However , in English , the pronoun “it” is used for most inanimate or non-living things . There are a few exceptions : a ship might be referred to as “she” . However , in German , the 3rd person personal pronoun gender reflects the gender of the noun (antecedent) referred to by the pronoun . For examples :

Der Kühlschrank ist fast leer. Er ist fast leer. It (masculine) is almost empty .
Ich brauche die Wurst. Ich brauche sie. I need it (feminine) .
Das Gespräch ist schwer. Es ist schwer. It (neuter) is difficult .

The following table summarizes these gender relationships :